A Winter project

It’s mighty cold out there. My computer says 7 below zero. We always argue that the temperature for the weather is taken at Mt. Alton which is a higher elevation airport and doesn’t really reflect our Bradford temperature. But even at that it’s mighty cold. I chose to stay in today even though Don went to Olean to get some supplies for his latest project..rebuilding an old player piano that we have had for years. Because we live in a small town he has to travel 50 miles round trip to get what he needs to rebuild the inside of the piano. When we were first married we bought a player piano and had so much fun pumping and singing along to the many rolls that we would put inside. It was a fun time. We sold that piano and bought this one with the intentions of getting it working. That was 25 years or more ago. It has sat, neglected all that time taking up valuable space in a back bedroom. Over the years I have suggested letting it go, but Don has an emotional connection to it and just wouldn’t sell or give it away. So we made a deal that if it isn’t fixed up by April he would get rid of it. So he has suddenly decided to take on this project requiring a lot of time and some extra money. He had rebuilt one in the past and is confident that he can get this one working too. What do you think?

Are you an Idol fan?

American Idol is back on the air with new judges and what looks like a lot more talent. Usually we had to sit through weeks of screeching wannabees and just plain idiots but last night there was some real talent. They lowered the age to 15 which I think is entirely too young to withstand the rigors of fame even though the young ones last night were very talented. But they need some experience in dealing with life before they are thrown into that stressful life of being a star. Even Don thought Steven Tyler was a great judge, not harsh, but honest. Jennifer Lopez found it hard to say no and we are hoping that she is not another Paula. It’s on again tonight and I am looking forward to it.
It was a quiet day here. I made some potato soup for dinner and read this afternoon. Our lives are very simple sometimes, but I like it that way..amen!

Loving winter?

You love winter, right? You never complain about the constant snow that needs shoveled, the single digit temperatures or the dangerous unshoveled slushy sidewalks, do you? Yeah, I know…me too. But there are some reasons to love winter so here are my best ones.
1. It is breathtaking (and I don’t mean the air is so cold it takes your breath away). I mean I’ll bet down south they have never seen the diamonds on the crisp newfallen snow before.
2. You have an excuse not to do things. You can blame it on the cold, bad roads, hibernation, or just make up an excuse and everyone understands why you don’t want to go out.
3. You get a lot of reading done.  What else is there to do besides watch tv?
4. You can sit inside with a cup of tea or cocoa, eat comfort foods, and watch the snow fall outside your window and just feel contentment.
5. Even the dog and cat don’t pester you as much to go outside.
6. Time seems to slow down, the pace is more lazy.
7. On the weekends you find yourself in your jammies till noon.
8. You bundle your errands all in one day so you don’t have to keep running to the store all week.
9. My whole body is covered up in layers and bulky sweaters.
10. If you have extra food you can just put it in the Bradford refrigerator (the garage) for a few hours.

I’m sure there are a few more, if you’d like to add them in the comments. But all in all..we can’t move south so we just grin and bear it. It will be spring soon (well, maybe not soon…but it will come). And when it’s 90 degrees next summer you will remember this nice cold winter.

Brr

Can you believe it was only 7 degrees out this morning when I left for coffee? Brr. We are feeling this cold snap even more than before. It makes you realize why animals hibernate. I just want to stay in, but the guilt of not exercising like I should be took over and I went to the YMCA for water aerobics class this morning. Even though it sometimes takes a lot of self talk to get me in the pool in this cold weather, I always feel better when I get in the water and get moving. I have slacked off on the exercise since the weather became bad and I couldn’t walk on the Pitt path. I’m beginning to use the cold as an excuse not to go and exercise. After the class it was home and getting the house back in shape. I’m not doing very well on my resolutions to get organized..instead I watched a movie this afternoon. I am feeling better however and didn’t need an afternoon nap for the first time in a week. (Gee, I sound old..but really it was because of the infection). Don spent some time out in the garage. He went out to start cleaning it up but got distracted when he saw something and spent most of the time trying to fix something else. If I did that  nothing in the house would ever get done. Men! (Did I say that out loud?) NO pictures today. I was so busy at Chris’ that I didn’t even take a picture. We had a great time. It’s always fun to be with the family.

Another January day

sadie looks like she is being punished but I can assure you that she loves to just go in her crate and rest. She has a little dog bed in there that is very comfortable and when we can’t find Sadie, she is sleeping in her crate.


What do you do on a bitter cold and snowy day. I cook. Comfort food. Today I found a recipe online for beef-cabbage soup. It is simmering on the stove as I type. I am taking it  to Chris’ with me tomorrow. I’ll make some cornbread to go along with it and we’ll have it for supper tomorrow night. Chris goes to table tennis on Fridays so he doesn’t have time to fix a meal.

Still snow

Yep, there’s still  snow out there. Looking out the window in the computer room I can see the icicles and snow piled up. We got about 6 inches overnight and more on the way today. Ho-hum, what else is new?

Even Top Gun won’t go outside. He looks out the door longingly, but when you open it he runs in the other direction.

Don has been busy today. He put on his plumber’s hat and is trying to save our refrigerator. We’ve been having trouble off and on since summertime with it freezing up in the refrige part. It is caused by a clogged drain from the freezer so he had to take the freezer all apart and unclog the drain. Let’s hope that works. I don’t know what I would have done all these years without my Mr. Fix-It.




Today I’m not getting a lot accomplished. I went to the dentist for my teeth cleaning this morning and haven’t had a lot of ambition since I’ve been home. Don and I decided that our hibernation is caused by the extreme lack of sunshine. We have a lot of cloudy days with no sun in the wintertime. I think I’ll curl up with a good book.

Cold day, warm tummy

Another very cold day. More snow is on the way tonight with a big storm predicted. Three to five inches. I don’t even get excited about three to five inches. After having so much snow piled up on the bushes out the front window so that I couldn’t even see out, this is just a little to me. Every day I have to take the shovel and clear off my walkway before I go out. But today I felt like having the oven on so I made a beef roast with vegetables. I used up the rest of my homemade wheat berry bread. How delicious!

Things that go bump in the night

That hump in the bed is Sadie. When I get up in the morning, she gets up with me…just long enough to be let out and then she races back to bed with Don and dives back under the covers. When he gets up, she doesn’t want to get out of the warm bed. Today he just made the bed up and left her there. After a few minutes she realized no one was coming back to bed. Being the nosy dog she is who can’t miss a thing, she wandered out in the kitchen to see what was going on.

A new day

I know it’s not, but I’m going to pretend this is January first. A new year, a new day. Do you make New Year’s resolutions? Have you broken them yet? None of those for me this year. Why bother. They’ve been the same now for 40 years…lose weight, get organized. Although I’ve made progress toward those ends I wouldn’t say I’ve ever achieved them to the point I wanted. So in the spirit of my new word for the year, acceptance, I am just accepting that my body is the way it is. If I can change it, I will, but I won’t fight so hard about it. And I have made a lot of headway on the organizational end. I can find things, I’ve gotten rid of a whole bunch of things, and I’ve organized. There’s a ways to go, but it’s mostly good. (This acceptance thing is working.)
So I think I’ll be goal oriented and make a few lists. I lived by lists most of my life. Especially when I was working and had young children. If I wanted to get anything accomplished I put it on the list and crossed it off when it was done. I need to get back in that habit. Let’s see.  What should go on the list? Hmmm.
1. I’d like to go room by room and clean. Curtains, walls, in depth dusting , floors, etc. I want to get it all done before the good weather comes in the spring and I want to spend my time outdoors.
2. Filing…oh, the dreaded filing. Got to get that all caught up for the year. That’s a project since I really hate to do it.
3. Going through the things under the basement stairs. That neglected part of the house has been a gathering place. I’m sure there are things that can go.
4. Gather things for a yard sale in the spring. Now is a great time to box up unwanted items and take them somewhere to sell. What an accomplishment that would be to remove those things from the house.
5. The garage. Not my territory, but needs a clean sweep.
6. What else? Of course, put on the list that I need to get out my painting supplies and make time to make pictures. If it’s not on the list, I may ignore it as I have in the past.
That’s a good list. A long list, but doable. It gives me a goal. What do you think?  Can I do it?

Finally

Finally there’s light at the end of the tunnel. My medicine has kicked in (after many swishes in my mouth) and the huge white sore bumps are disappearing and the pain is less. I feel so relieved..like a weight has been lifted from me. We have a saying around my house when things go wrong….it could always have been worse. If the car breaks, luckily it happened in town and not in another state on a long trip. If something spoils are plans, lucky that we got to do something unexpected instead. If the sewer backs up, thank goodness it didn’t happen with a house full of people. It always seems like we can turn a bad situation into a good one. As bad as I have been this week I think about those whose diagnosis is a lot more final. The illness I’ve been plagued with have a life and a death and I can go on healed to normal. Some are not that lucky. So thank you readers for putting up with my crabbing and complaining this week. And thanks for all your support when I got down. Tomorrow is another day. And with luck, a much better one.

Sara

Mom, a bow. Really?

WORD OF THE YEAR

Every year seems to have a theme. The word for this year for me will be
ACCEPTANCE.  It’s time to realize the old prayer, change the things you can and accept those things you cannot change. First, you cannot change others. Much as I’d like to be a peacemaker among members of my family, my efforts have not made any headway into getting family back together. It’s time to just accept that things are the way they are and don’t have anything to do with me. It’s up to the people involved to change.  Second, some situations you can’t change. I can’t make things better for my friends no matter how much I want to. I accept that they are responsible for their own situations and I will support them all they can, but I accept that I cannot do anything to change their fate. Next, I am willing to be more self accepting. I am the way I am and have developed this way over many years. It’s time to appreciate the woman I’ve become and accept those good things about me and realize we are all human and not blame myself over my shortcomings. Last I will accept everyone that comes into my life at face value. They show me who they are and I will accept them without judgment.  This is the year for Acceptance.

Wintry sunroom

Just a few pictures of how I redid the sunroom for January.

 

For all of you keeping track

I give up! It’s been one heath dilemma right after another for me since I got home after Thanksgiving. First I lost a solid week with a terrible bad cold that put me down on the couch with coughing and sore throat. Next, I developed that itchy rash all over my body due to something I ate. I also had a bladder infection. Then this week I got the stomach virus so bad that I’m still recovering. Not only that I went to the dr today about my sore mouth only to find out I had thrush (from taking steroids. It suppressed my autoimmune system so I got thrush, a yeast infection in my mouth).I hate to be a complainer but enough is enough. I want this to end now! 

Twiddle, dee, dee

I would never say I’m bored. I’ve been retired for nine years and haven’t been bored a single day yet. But today…I am sick of tv, don’t feel like reading, and just feel sick enough to not want to do anything. I’m still recovering and am pushing just to stay off the couch all day. So I occasionally do a load of laundry or sit at the computer until I feel weak and have to go lay down again. Darn this old bug! Tomorrow we’ll be going to Erie for Don’s cardiologist appointment. Even though we’ll eat at Olive Garden I know it will be just soup for me. My stomach is still so tender that when I eat anything (like Cream of Wheat this morning) it hurts. And not only that I have something wrong with my gums and inside my mouth and everything in there is so sore I can’t chew. You know, you have to be careful what you ask for. I wanted to lose weight. But not this way. I did do a “drive by” shooting over in Willow Dale cemetery this morning. It is very cold here in western Pennsylvania with temperatures in the teens, but so pretty.

January morn

Bare branches of each tree on this chilly January morn look so cold so forlorn. Gray skies dip ever so low left from yesterday's dusting of snow. Yet in the heart of each tree waiting for each who wait to see new life as warm sun and breeze will blow, like magic, unlock springs sap to flow, buds, new leaves, then blooms will grow."

~~Nelda Hartmann, January Morn

The wooden bowl

The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now,
a year from now.

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson.
The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered
The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and
failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor.
When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.
'We must do something about father,' said the son.
'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor..'
So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.
There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.
Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.
He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded,
'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.
' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done..
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family... And for some reason,
neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.

Still cold, but warm in my heart.

It’s still cold here in the frozen north with nineteen degrees and fresh snow last night and today. I ventured out for the first time to meet my friends for coffee this morning. I’m feeling a little better now that I put a little food in my stomach, but not exactly up to par. By tomorrow I am hoping that all will be well and I can get back to all the projects that I want to get done in January. It is a great month for deep cleaning and organizing. My goal is to do all that by the end of the month. (yes, even the attic and basement.) 
   A little surprise in the mail made my day a little brighter. My sister Linda sent me a package. Here is what was inside.













A gorgeous cast iron red Chinese teapot and 4 pagodas. Do you see a theme? For Christmas she bought me four square gold chargers, a red and black vase and 4 red and black rice bowls to go with the cups that I bought down in Virginia. I can’t wait to make a tablescape with all my new things. Thank you to the sweetest sister in the world! We had such a good time last week and I miss her already. I wished we lived closer. We could really have a time.

Lying Low

If there was ever a bug that had super potency it’s this stomach virus. After a horrible day of being sick and a day of recovery the third day is still making its effects known. It’s only soft foods for my stomach or I feel bloating and pain. I stayed in today except for a quick trip to the hospital for a mammogram. Here are some pictures I played with using Photobucket.

2011

 

2011 has gotten off to a rocky start. First there was the drainage problem that backed up sewer water in the toilets and filled the bathtub with murky brown water. Don had to crawl under the house and open a drain, but it was finally resolved. Then yesterday that awful stomach virus hit me and I spent all day vomiting. I’ve never been that sick in my life. I would have gone to the emergency room, but I couldn’t get dressed. Thankfully today it’s gone but I’m left weak so I couldn’t make my dentist appointment in Jamestown. I hope this isn’t an indication of what it to come this year.